He also has his natal Sun, Venus and Mercury in his 12th house. In this relationship, you tend to agree to a no-obligation arrangement from the start. If a person is open to the supernatural, this would be a positive thing to see in an overlay. didnt dream of them either. Its difficultto tell whats going on here. Hey! You could have an unwavering affection for this individual. Howd you get over him and stop thinking about him? I never even considered he couldve liked me because everyone liked him and every time I think he tried to tell me I shut him down cause I didnt want to be one of his conquests. Someone may be misinterpreting something. Mine lasted for nearly 3 years amid a ton of torment, aching for his love, trying to understand the hostility, the mental/spiritual abuse, trying to help him .. all SORTS of goodies/1 In the end, it was me that jumped ship; who needs that kind of nonsense in ones life? Infatuation can't run this deep. Are they always honest to each other when 12 house is involved? Now i know why. Oh one more thing: I am a Sun, Venus & Jupiter/Sag native and my Venus is opposite to my 12th House Gemini placement (Uranus-RETRO). So strange in this 12th house. Is your 12th house tenanted then? At least I know I'm not the only one who is going through this. Maybe we should all listen to our inner voices; intuitively we always KNOW who is bad or good. The 12th house is highly psychic and deeply spiritual. Friendship Argh Making me suck because I still have high hopes . The Venus person gets all silly lovestruck everytime they see their object of desire. Hi, Heather. The 12th house usually involves secret love affairs and unrequited love. This house holds many lifetimes of memories. where is your Neptune? Same thingsso magnetiche is plutonian, and his pluto trine my moon and sextile my venus and semisextile my sun. I have a venus in capricornso yes it is hard for me to let my feelings out..I don't expect to say I love youI just assume you should know it by my actions but for me on the other hand, I would need some reassurance from my partner. His response have a huge impact upon me. i do notice that if someone has 12th house moon and im also 12th moon, we mirror eachother. We had an affair that was hidden, even though I would have given everything to be with him full time. I know exactly what you mean and boy is it hard to wrap your head around 12th house connections, there are other worldly and they leave a deep impression that is hard to shake off. It's true this house can be heavy, it's the house of hospitals, psychotherapist, prisons, too. such beautiful love, they put it behind the scene. Absolutely killing me .He was in love then all of a sudden he wasn't and said we couldn't sleep together anymore . Just cant get past my Gemini obsessions, I guess. Thanks for being so detailed. Yes i do believe it possible to work even if you have not physically met as crazy as that sounds, my experience with this house has shown it to be a very magical house, that has roots in the past. Venus in your Partners 12th house The Venus person will be highly complimentative with the house person which will help increase their overall self-confidence. He has sun conjunct saturn and he also has it with me in synastry as well as my daughter. I'm not all that great with articulating stuff that's not of this world. And yes, it plays out just you would think it does. It might be like having an itch you cant scratch. When we are together its like time is nothing. Be direct, ask questions, dig deep, ask for proof and confirmation. I dont feel he doesnt love me enough. Positive aspects and conjunctions between Venus' show that the two people view love in a very similar way. You know how you feel different in a dream but it's very real? Sun conjunct saturnSun conjunct venusSun conjunct mercury (double whammy)Sun conjunct sun, ------------------Gemini sun 12thCancer asc 1stTaurus moon 11thTaurus venus 11thLibra mars 3rdGemini mercury 11th, Copyright 2000-2013 A example of how the hidden fears thing of this house works is that we often will have a bad dream about something we are afraid of happening or suppressed anger, and and fear can bring us nightmares. But it just feels like i knew him before. Me and my fianc has this. And it is hard and painful for a physical person like me. Every synastry aspect Ive read into says that he should have felt more for me and I just dont know if that could be possible. 12th house isnt only secrecy and I rarely see it that way 12th house synastry is beyond limits. Yes I do think that it's a possibility with his Neptune in your 12th its a very intuitive and psychic connection. He acts like hes in love with me, he acts like he cares deeply for me, hes there for me and has even held me while I cried. I feel I just love him unconditionally no matter what, I dream of him a lot, I have fantasies too but I keep this all to myself, a secret. was it really necessary to get hurt in a same manner once again after 7 years? Knowflake. What he/she hates in something, i can see that they do the same thing, but they cant see it. However, it was my Venus in his h12th. But afflicted venus indicates the negative effects of the venus/ neptune aspects. Let me you move along. Same here. I love him so much, I dont even know what to do with myself. Idk if its cause its cancer in that house or my super exhausted Jupiter giving me a savior complex but its kinda like familial love like no matter what he always has a place in my heart. I leave, but I always come back after a while. I'm very new here so read at your own risk! I feel like a complete different being since I met him. and it was unreal and he sat down at our table and I felt like my entire body was on fire. In a synastry chart, this is indicative of strong affection and attraction. It rules creativity, beauty, diplomacy the arts and is representative of our physical and tangible . It s killing me . My Pluto sextiles his Moon and Venus and opposes his NN. Feel free to elaborate in the comments. You can hide things from eachother and it can make you feel vulnerable or weary, so it's not a house for everyone. I thaught his strange behavior had something to do with this. Venus in 12th House Synastry Overlay If your Venus is in your partner's 12th house of a synastry overlay, you find yourself deeply moved in strange ways by the house person. Venus in 10th House synastry indicates a kind of built in security since both partners feel comfortable with their relationship no matter where they end up geographically. Required fields are marked *. because it hurts to know this about yourself, or just accept it. Especially natal charts and composite charts. They may also help you feel secure and confident when they are around. It's as if its a fairytale, make belive love and Im in a dream. Negatively, the planet person can use any of these fears as a way to control them, manipulate them or to use against them in some way. they have told me the same.one of them told me his feelings too late after i was already in a relationship and i met the other while i was in the same one. Posts: 1873. You will not regret it. Ouch!We do not see clearly, we imagine things differently than they are, we trust, we assume, we are not working with facts but what we want to believe and feelings. Orange. Please see special article on The 12th house synastry along with Neptune Moon Aspects for the descriptions will explain in greater detail. If you Love this person, let destiny take its course and have faith in divine/universal timing. He was a cancer rising, Scorpio moon, sun in Gemini in the 12th. Very easy. Venus Conjunct Pluto Synastry. Glad that its OVER!! Long story short, we both loved each other but it didn't work out for various reasons (I suspect fear and insecurity was the main issue - karmic connection). When Im with him its like everything else in the world just melts away. Sometimes in teh beginng this house can be overwhelming for some becasue it's like you can see into each others soul. I think what really happens is too much is shared to quickly, many secrets, and hidden parts of oneself and why things often get complicated. Hi Aida! Thanks for the 12th house information. And also my Pluto is trine his Venus. You will find yourself smitten to this house person. If they are yours theyll come back and if they dont they never were., I can vouch for this too. and NO MORE 12TH HOUSE PARTNERS FOR ME!! It's as if nither of us are ready to let go fully. My Lib Sun and Jupiter falls in his 12th. My Venus conjunct his north node in 12 Pisces , and his Venus conjunct my vertex on desc ..From my part, I felt the karmic connexion.I was sure I need to do something with him, teach him something, Learn something from him..and I felt the sexual attraction also ( we have Sun/Pluto in 8 Scorpio) but,guess what? He was and is also a very adroit liar, and even though there was very great chemistry and connectedness between us, I had to end it. Well you can imagine how the proposition to be his off-time mistress set with my Midhaven in Aries. even when its painful between us this pull makes me want to continue with him so I did not want him to feel my pain yet he could and tried to finish things cos of itbut then we couldnt seem to leave them for more than 3 days anyway, Yep not sure what to call it a relationship, love,, obsession, infatuation, One good and beautiful thing between us which feels like the work of this placement is this soul journeying thing when we are physically together(i feel like when we are close its like we spark something off in each other which creates deep peace, ecstasy and brings us to feel our own souls thru each otherit is very healing)he says i relax him instantly. It's such a surreal feeling. I have to admit that I, with my usual 3/Sag and 3/Leo stelliums went after HIM because I was so sure he was my soul mate. I wish you lick with your 12th Houser, but there is a saying that 12th House connections are doomed to fail at least at one point. I have had a couple of encounters in which I felt bad vibes but the others were unbelievably psychic and strangely accepting and confessional, I personally really like this house but I also know quite a few that have had very poor experiences, so the negative does need to be warned. Last night I went to bed normally and suddenly I could not get him off my mind, I laid there for 4 hours unable to sleep and unable to get my mind off of him and the fight we had had days ago. He shows me he cares with actions and he has told me twice he is in love with me. but I CAN (4-Sag placement, counting the PF), and thus I DID. Ironically, your experience sounds much like my own, excepting my 12th Houser turned mean and abusive, even though I was ARMS OPEN to him at all times. Often taking hour long walks around town/woods just the two of us, talking endlessly.I just see ALL this Neptunian energy and wonder if there is even a point of pursuing him that way rather than just staying really, really good friends. His sun, mercury, Neptune fall in my 8th house. iRecently i have met a guy in my office whose north node conjuct my 12th house where is my moon and mars. lol He also has his Mercury conjuncting my Sun in the 8th house and his Venus conjuncts my Venus as well as his Mars conjuncts my Mars. The following is important: Is this a day chart or a night chart (was the sun up or down when the person was born). Lol. Any planet in the 12th house is aiming for something beyond its grasp. this also sounds a bit like my own synastry with a crazy Sun/Gem Moon/Sag man. Would he feel my NN in his 12th and if so in what way? He could communicate with my soul because he could explained my secret desire without boundaries.I had erotic dreams about him a lot. 12th house synastry is way too murky for me to tangle with. Combust! Yes, assumptions is one thing that takes place a lot in this house. But we do know a lot more about it than we did some time ago. The moment we talked I felt like I knew him since always, and when started shring some details it was like we had the same growing up, same ambitions (my Sun is in Aries, his in Capricorn). Where your Venus falls in your partner's chart shows where you bring these energies into their life. We have opposite rising signs. after 2/3 months later i came to know that he has girlfriend somewhere in another country. Even when on partner likes the other one partner would not want to be seen with the other person for whatever reasons as in maybe wanting to keep their option open; definitely a "behind the scenes" situation. The twelfth house by its nature is diffuse and undefined. Sadly, I was the house person and hopelessly in love, while the Venus person would not admit their feelings even though we both knew they did feel for me, just like I felt for them.. Actually, the guy told me "I love you, *insert my name here*" while we were in class, but we barely knew each other and I didn't know if he was being serious.. later on he denied it said it was a joke (but it wasn't). But Tabitha seems to attract controlling lovers (maybe she has Pluto in her 7th House). You need some fire. I dont want him anymore as he rejected me but I cant help but stop thinking about him. If neither one has any issues like these then the relationship does not need to take on such a heavy role and can then be about many of the positive aspects of this house. He bitches if i drink too much wine lol. It's very common to do with placements in this house. It could be due to different things.. like the planet person is insecure/shy/doesn't wanna show their love in an open way, or just that the house person doesn't "get" the planet person's way of loving. inscryption cards. The same potential is there with composite charts and a lot of 12th house emphasis. Im so sorry for the delay! Some dont want to, ever. The descriptions of 12th house Venus in synastry always ring true for me, but I'm always the house person, so it totally sucks being so affected by someone who hides their feelings. It may not display this or other websites correctly. I feel you, kak.. Im the planet person, in which im the venus, he's the house person. I have noticed this can happen from a distance when we have Neptune 12th house synastry as well. We work well together and it is always professional. But what made it all so compelling, is that I REMEMBERED HIM FROM TWO PAST LIVES when we were mates!! For someone who may be married to a 12th Houser and are tanking under their emotional and spiritual holds, just try to find ways to LEAVE them, leave the house you share with them, and move far away. when i came back there was this weird thing between us. I can only state that my 12th Houser ended up pretty much devastating me perhaps it was because of his Sun/Gemini in my 12th House and my Vwnus/Sag in his 12th House. Anyone else care to share? Oh lord: Hi, Steph sorry for the long delay in responding. Im all thumbs up, though, for those who do not nave the bad effects of a 12th House synastry. These are unconscious impulses as well as the forbidden desires at least tried to suppress. Im also worried he is using me on many levels and though his words and actions say otherwise, I feel that this is at least partially true. Venus is the planet of love, beauty, romance, values, and finances. Venus Synastry in the Houses PATH-STROLOGY Utilizing Astrology to Find Your Path Home Natal Placements / Aspects Synastry Placements / Aspects Composite Placements / Aspects Planet: Sun Planet: Moon Planet: Mars Planet: Venus Planet: Jupiter Planet: Uranus Planet: Pluto Asteroids + Points Celebrities / The Infamous Past Life Astrology Pisces is the sign without boundaries. JavaScript is disabled. Take it like a grain of salt and more of insecurity on their behalf. We have our suns, moons, venus and mars all the same sign and his neptune falls into my 12th house. Plus his venus is in cancer and my north node and asc are in cancer. I promise you a guy who pursues you is a far, far better fit. I can sense when he needs something even when he isn't next to me. He told me he loved me so many times and then took it back, and he told me there are things he needs to work through. I would love to here anyone's feedback. why am I'm alone. game vault 999 login; extreme double anal; asian school girl porn; karma x nagisa story; jamf enable screen sharing; myq device is currently not in provisioning mode It felt a bit cruel because he acted as if he was so I felt led on as he observed me slowly falling in love Anyway With my heavy Saturn influence ( Venus in cancer in 10th opposite Saturn + stellium in 4th house) I dont do well with non committed relationships and I felt what he did lacked integrity so I just left it there as I would not have been fulfilled. and my northnode conjuct on his jupiter and saturn on my 2nd house. Its vague, wet, murky and the fog is dense, we need to rely on our intuition, but our intuition is skewed here, so what is one to do? Strangely enough, I found that I had this very weird feeling of being ill for a couple days and almost felt like I might pass out, but it wasn't like it really felt like I was ill (difficult to explain.) He was everything I wanted from a man, he broke all my barriers, and he was what I want to become as we run in more or less same line of business. Also with another friend who showed interest and I really just wanted to remain on a friend basis. You say hes your EX-best friend. As if it was not enough he has moon conjunct pluto in the 5th and Venus square Pluto and Venus trine Saturn. Venus, in the 8th house in synastry, reveals a bitter relationship between partners. Hes very affectionate and cuddly. The feeling that I am the only one dealing with the 12th house issues is so painful. like a Gemini (no offense meant) they are both good and evil, but THEIR Evil Twin often does the acting out. So Im confused about being confused lol Im dating someone all of our planets are 12th house but my natal chart is 12th house filled already.. everyone in his family knows about me and everyone in my family knows about him they know were also expecting a baby and so does social media lol .. But I still hope. His Pluto squares my Sun, Moon, Mercury, Saturn and NN. Positively both can help the other overcome their fears, discover hidden talents, or gifts. Their is so much fear between us. Tabitha has Venus in 12th House Pisces. He scares me sometimes because he has a violent tendency and I think he activated my 12th house because all of a sudden Im afraid to be with him for the rest of my life even though I know we were made for each other. I cared abt him so much but I read that the mars person is the antagonist. Venus trine Pluto, sun and Saturn trine. The planet Venus takes its name from the Roman goddess of love, lust, beauty and fertility. It doesn't necessarily have to do with verbal flattery but the presentation, image or interaction boosts the House. Are Venus Pluto Contacts In Synastry Problematic? In synastry, when someone's Venus is in your 2nd House, this person is a supportive influence for you. As with all conjunctions, Venus conjunct Pluto synastry can play out in positive and negative scenarios alike.. Venus conjunct Pluto synastry relationships are based on the partners' strong romantic and physical attraction. At least in a romantic situation, often what happens is that the house person doesn't "feel" or has a hard time seeing the love of the Venus person. I forgot to say my venus is in his first house and when we met it was like that scene from twilight where Edward walks into the cafeteria in slow motion, the wind was blowing (indoors!) And thats when he disappeared. GOD-awful!! Possibly. This is why this house also holds our hidden enemies. Best wishes to you darling and thank you for sharing your story :), I just read the previous 12th house story and the aspects are nearly the same as with the guy I am seeing. I am an independent person and this is killing me emotionally, physically and psychologically! It is a great placement in synastry, of course depending on other aspects to the degree. Just count your blessings for the dance you experienced, and move on to someone/something new.